Life Maps
“Trying to define yourself is like trying to bite your own teeth.” —Alan Watts
SUMMARY:
First of all, let’s take a deep breath and “run the tap”. In other words, let’s pour out all of the potential areas of our lives that we could write about in our college essay — pivotal relationships, hidden obsessions, cultural traditions, academic turning points, extracurricular struggles, unique personal quirks… whatever it is, write it down as inventory.
Through mapping, you’ll begin to notice unexpected, non-linear connections across different areas of your life. For example, how a unique family dynamic influences your intellectual curiosity, or how a specific routine shaped your personal philosophy. Ultimately, this exercise gives you a low-stakes, high-yield toolkit to identify themes of genuine self-reflection and vulnerability.
“The Iconic ’I Am’ College Essay: Why It Doesn’t Hold Up Anymore”
Link HERE.
EXERCISE:
On a blank page, list or “map” all of the areas/subjects/experiences of your life that you think might have material worthy of your college essay. Don’t overthink, don’t edit, just write them down!